When is it right to tell your mother she has bad parenting skills?

My brother yelled at my mom recently saying that her parenting was bad and I thought this was really out of line. He then yelled at me telling me to grow up (I'm 20) when I found it kind of ironic that he's almost 30 and still living at home w/ our mother.When is it right to tell your mother she has bad parenting skills?
Stay out of it. That's their messing relationship. I don't know if it bother you that she is during so much for him but if it is look at it this way you are supporting yourself. You are an adult and you are not taking advantage of your momWhen is it right to tell your mother she has bad parenting skills?
Knocking your mother will not help her one bit!


You are better off going the opposite way and giving her some pointers on how to deal with this child that she calls a son.


Write down your idea's and think before you speak to her ok, her self esteem and ego are low enough already without you putting the boots in either further.


Ask different people how would they handle the situation. The more suggestions that you get will give you the more options that you need.


Poor mum probably has no idea and too embarrassed to ask anyone for help or advice.


Make sure that she knows how much you love her and how much you want to help her. Remember she needs to make all the decisions not you. Give her idea's and let her control the situation.


She will needs heaps of hugs and cuddles. x0x0x0x0xx0x0 A few extras, just in case.
unless your were abused or neglected...I think its best to respect your parents.. nobody is perfect, just be a grown up and move on. A 30 year old man has ZERO reasons to live at home with his parents unless he is taking care of them or he has special needs such as a mental or physical handicap...otherwise get your *** out there and go to work and make a life - the only bad parenting I see is them allowing him to remain a child.
Whenever you honestly feel you are speaking the truth and have no personal gain in the motivation.





With the Information you have supplied, I too think your brother is out of line. I would want to find out why your brother got to the point of such great rudeness and inconsideration.
she let him become a living joke.he is yelling at her because of this.he knows he is a loser.maybe she bought him the wrong video game.or caught him reading national geographic and spanking it.
Well she has bad parenting skills when your brother 30 and doesn't have a place of his own. But he shouldn't have yelled or anything.
If he's 30 and still living at home I don't think he's mature enough to judge anyone's parenting skills. Plus, I'd say if he doesn't like your mother's parenting skills he should move out.
maybe the only bad pareenting she may be guilty of is not teaching him to take care of himself, in other words move out of home and get his own life and kids then he might see things differently!!
whenever she stops supporting you.
When she has no ammo in her gun.
hmmm sounds like your bro needs to shape up or get out, she cant be that bad if hes still at home! men!
just tell here